I would like to add that if we feel guilt because they hurt someone, we can’t just “let that go,” acting like things are okay when they’re not. The Holy Spirit is Who is making us feel guilty, because we are — until we reconcile — TO BE FREE!
Paul learned how to be FREE from condemnation, walking according to the Spirit:
“Herein I also practice ALWAYS having a CONSCIENCE VOID OF OFFENSE toward God and MEN.” (Acts 24:16)
We can’t fight God.